Tips for college freshman

[deleted] · 2014-02-18T18:38:20+00:00

Well, what helped me was making guy friends. Wingmen are great in a college setting since you'll be attending house parties instead of going to the bar to meet girls. That being said, make sure you get some that aren't some fat fucks that love video games and video games only. Going to a party lone wolf style is kinda weird and you'll have nobody around to not make you look like a fucking weirdo during the lulls between dancing with girls or talking to them.

Don't be fucking shy, go up to a girl, tell her to come dance with you, or go talk to them at least. These girls are looking for status even in the house party environment. That being said, don't be up against a wall drinking a beer and every once in a while go up to a girl. They don't want that shit. They want someone who looks fun as fuck and is going to show them a good time, when I say show them a good time, I don't mean succumb to what they wanna do for the night or at the party, they can come along for te ride, but you are setting the fun. If you do that, they thirst for the attention you're getting and will be all over your shit. Be they guy at the party that brought the beer bong, be the guy that started keg stands, be the guy that starts something fucking awesome, the girls will follow.

Always close.

The first girl you talk to is not you fuck buddy for the night, sure, they can be, but you aren't stuck on that one girl.

Don't be afraid of rejection, freshmen get intimidated by this, it's going to fucking happen, don't let it rock you.

In class, talk to the girls, freshmen are also intimidated by this, I won't go into what to say because there are countless posts on how to talk to girls.

These girls aren't looking for their husband, don't fucking act like you are. You aren't anyone's future in college but your own

Redundancy, you are aren't anyone's future in college, you are your own. There's time outside of college too, this isn't your only chance to fuck girls. Get good grades and get that job that gives the paper up. They'll flock

Have a plan at all times going into a party, how are you going to close? Where are you going to go? Ect. I've been caught in this predicament before, got a blowjob on a bench though out of it

Don't be the sloppy drunk, unless you're a fucking 10/10, you're not getting laid

Redundancy: you are not anyone's future in college, you are your own

The gym is a fucking stellar place to meet girls, and you stay looking good in the process. Remember, confidence is key. And nobody wants to talk while they're on the treadmill so don't do that shit.

Get into some groups of some sport. Rec center coed leagues, study groups, what ever

These are all things that helped me throughout college, obviously something's will be different

Good luck

Fuck Ohio state, go blue

Edited: spelling, phones suck dick

[deleted] · 2014-02-18T19:22:54+00:00

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[deleted] · 2014-02-18T22:24:27+00:00

Be yourself.

Don't be the yourself that everybody expects you to be. Nor the you that is bounded by the rules and constraints of society. Be the you as if all societal order has broken down. If there is no such thing as courtesy, chivalry, nor politeness. At parties, there are no rules. You fight for attention. It's your right to be loud and obnoxious. Share your ideas with vigour, and damned it if someone doesn't agree with them. Put yourself out there, to be judged. Let them tear into you, and come out stronger from it.

There are no laws, no courtesy at a party. It's an anarchistic place where the loudest survive. And damned if it isn't fun.

[deleted] · 2014-02-18T19:11:32+00:00

initial approach.. you gotta provide the dialog, but i find it works better if you have a mutual eyefuck before the approach. Some people dont do this, but I dont see why not, lets her fantasize and build you up in her head before she knows anything about you. Makes her way more receptive and doesnt overwhelm her when you do talk to her because now its expected.

if theres an attractive girl in glass give her a stare with a smirk, then after that class itll be natural for you to talk to her.

throwwhatthere · 2014-02-18T20:40:01+00:00

College is a giant status game, and it's a big enough place that there's tons of competition, but small enough that the market is well defined. Remember 80/20. You're job is to be the 20.

Make your goal being a somebody on campus.

averagecycle · 2014-02-18T22:02:27+00:00

Don't live on north campus

roue_ · 2014-02-18T21:07:36+00:00

I too will be off to university this September. I'm going to make it the best 3 years of my life.

thehigheststatusmale · 2014-02-18T23:18:41+00:00

Introduce yourself to everyone. Everyone.

Title	Tips for college freshman
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Date	February 18, 2014 6:00 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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