I'm asking for you guys to give me some tips on girls that hesitate. Basically met 9/10 in a cosy bar, asked for her number, we flirt, asked her out, she says she has some stupid exams and will msg me in the summer break. (College freshman here). She actually does, we go out clubbing, we start dancing closer, I escalate, we kiss. We met a lot of friends at the club, all of which I talked to give us some space since she seemed really not in the mood. Turns out she was worrying for her drunk girl friend, who got together with a stranger. Fast forward we kiss and part ways.

I couldn't go any further than kissing, she even told me she's not comfortable making out in the club (strangely it was her first time clubbing, no she is not lying).

I've decided to give her some space, see if she wants to go further and meet again.

What are your tips regarding girls that seem too stressed/are not in the mood for further escalation? I actually had to find her drunk friend and bring her to talk to the 9/10 so that she would stop being so stressed. After that we made out. Strangest club experience ever.