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[–]U-M-P 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The fact that you're asking means you know full well what we will all tell you, that niggling thought in your brain is probably right. She is very slowly moving on from you.
So you have two choices, try your damn hardest to save this relationship (A pointless task) or focus on yourself and prepare for your upcoming singledom with self improvement and moving forward in life.
You never know, picking the second option may cause the first. Just don't hold out too much hope.
[–]thatcoolguy321-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Yuuuu
[–]U-M-P 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's dead, move on. And never assume "she isn't the type of person to cheat". You don't know that, she may just surprise you on this trip she's just taken
[–]thatcoolguy321-3 points-2 points-1 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
T
[–]U-M-P 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because you two are special snowflakes? Have no inherent evolutionary psychology?
[–]EhzmwGGh1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You came to red pill sub so you are getting red pill answers. From what you have described I would not be surprised if she have already cheated on you with some of her coworkers. Also no one said it yet but texting is logistics only. So from the red pill point of view you are making another big mistake by trying to keep your relationship alive via texting.
[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
A. Get out on your own.
B. Implement Dread protocols.
C. Dump her and spin plates.
[–]thatcoolguy321-2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thanks dude, can you explain what you mean by dread protocol?
[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Google "12 levels of dread"
[–]thatcoolguy3210 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is prob best advice so far at first glance to provide more value in relationship together for ltr red pill
[–]EhzmwGGh2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
No offence but you sound blue pull ass fuck. Why don't you post this on r/dating_advice or r/relationship_advice?
[–]thatcoolguy321-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah maybe or maybe you are... I personally think we are compatible and she clearly does too if we have been dating for over 3 years. We have matured evolved and over time grew closer together where I can read her mind and predict her move. I was asking for guidance and maybe I will post there since it seems people here like to live single lives
[–]MrSittingBull0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I thought this about my ex-girlfriend before I took the RedPill. Reason I'm here now is because she cheated on me throughout our relationship even though "she wasn't the type to cheat". We'd been on for a long few years and everything seemed perfect, to me, not her.
The reality is that girls will make decisions based on emotions, rather than logic or risk analysis 9 times out of 10. To me, having a consistently stable relationship was amazing and great, didn't have to worry about game or uncomfortable sex because we knew each other like the back of our hands. But to her, it was plain ol' boring.
I have ghosted her in past and she crawled back so probably what I’ll do while she is on vacation so when she gets back I’ll tear it up with.
[–]ishyman0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only thing she is compatible with someone else’s cock. You can’t handle the truth. Just because you think this way doesn’t means she does. The relationship has ran its course. Remember she wasn’t yours, it was just your turn.
[–]Falling13370 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bruh it's over. My ex was all of a sudden 'exhausted from work', tired, less hanging out/texts.. etc. She is with him now. Lesson learned for me but bullet dodged and I am in a better place now.
There is probably another guy whom she is eyeing down or already got ploughed by. I say expect the worst, distance yourself and understand that's how the game goes especially if you show beta traits and become clingy/insecure.
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