Ive been spinning some plates recently and caught oneiti with one. I lost frame and she is now giving me the "i dont wanna see you anymore" crap.

I feel like ive got two options, one is a hard next (but feels weak cus thats what shes done to me). She still seems INTERESTED though to a point, she replies to feelers. So option two, I need you guys to tell me if this is evil.

A few nights ago i said id call her tonight (cant meet in person cus im away fir a few weeks) she didnt say no but gave me a shit test which i passed.

I think she wants me in orbit, but I know if i get her on the phone i can win, easily. So my plan was to do so, smooth it over, THEN hard next her. Is that too vindictive/evil? I could walk away and naybe thats the alpha thing to do. But the arshole/beta inside of me says its better to walk away in control.

Thoughts?