Im new to the red pill. I started going to the gym 3 weeks ago and i completely changed my outlook on women and life in general.

However, my problem thats kinda holding me back socially is that im too laid back. How can i be alpha and lead when im so relaxed about everything?

Often times when im talking to someone they think im not interested in what theyre saying when really thats just how i am. For example the other day i was coming back from the gym and i saw a guy that goes there too and he seemed so happy to see me he had a big smile on his face and was so energetic and eventhough i was happy to see him too i barely cracked a smile and kept the convo short because i dont really like small talk.