I think this comes down to my fear of rejection but especially in group settings I get really quiet as sort of a defence mechanism especially around women. I’ve been lifting for a few years and got up to 5’10 220 so it’s not really the respect thing I struggle with. I have a rotation of two that I met off ig and tinder who I don’t even have to talk to, but am just too timid in person if I am unfamiliar with the girl. How do I fix this shit. But if social anxiety too so that prob plays a role