Long story short: a girl I’ve been seeing for the past 3 months found out that I’m using tinder(through her friends).

Yesterday when she was over she asked me about it; to sum up our conversation:

  • She started talking about exclusivity yada yada yada
  • I said that I like what we have but that I’m not ready for commitment because that’s something I haven’t thought through yet.
  • She said that all of this is really tough for her and then she started crying; she didn’t know if she could keep “dating” a guy who she has caught feelings for knowing that he might meet other girls.

This girl is quite anxious from time to time; she has told me that she thinks I’m seeing other girls when I’m not answering her texts/snaps for longer periods of time.

Is this type of behavior considered red flag?

Is this behavior common among girls, or is it because she is young and inexperienced?

What’s the best way to deal with the whole situation?(the “ultimatum” she gave me trying to get commitment)

Thanks, any help is appreciated