Hello “Pill”

I’ll get right to it. Man problem here.

Im 44 years old, married 13 years. Im a healthy guy. 5’-10” 200 pounds, fit and muscular toned. Athletic build. and eat generally well. Got a good bill of health at my last physical, testosterone slightly low but not dangerous. Don’t drink or smoke.

I think i may have some sort of erectile dysfunction. Let me explain.

I have a very high sex drive, no problem there. Always want it. I masturbate about 3-4 times a week on average. My wife and I hardly have sex, she lost her drive a while back after our second child was born.

Heres the problem..

  1. When i masturbate, it takes a little longer than it used to to achieve full erection that it did a few years back. I also need more stimulation i notice, and I only feel like 75% erect. I ejaculate fine.

  2. When i DO have sex with my wife. i get erect like i do masturbating, but, and heres my big question…within 15 seconds after going in her vagina, I get soft! Why does this happen?

So my problems, not feeling fully erect and losing it on penetration. Very frustrating.

Heres what people have suggested. Stress, diet, natural with age, blood flow, etc.

What could be wrong with me? I was stiff as a board two years ago when the wind blew!