Recently, I'm starting to notice an inability on my part to LTR girls that I am actually interested in keeping around. I am able to successfully plate them and they have no objection to remaining in plate status. But at some point I do want to settle down and I am wondering what exactly I may be communicating to women that may make them see me only as here and now material but not bf or husband material.

I know TRP usually preaches there is no value in marriage or settling down, so I guess I don't expect to find much help. But I'm curious to find out what my issue may fundamentally be. Is my SMV too low for LTR material?

Thoughts?