I’m being a bitch and paralyzed by how to move forward with multiple girls. I also have a packed schedule during week that I talk about later.

1) a girl who did a shitty flake for a day 3 – picked her up at bar first night, dinner date day 2, hooked up both times. She called me this week apologizing and said she owes me and is willing to work around my schedule when I don’t have a busy night because she understands I’m not going to give her any priority. Its been almost a month since last time we saw one another. Might wait for this Sunday for a hang out night.

2) Younger girl, first date off dating app, hooked up. Been a week and half since first date. Asked her to hang out last minute Sunday, got back to day later saying she was busy but wants to plan something out.

3) Other girl, first date off dating app, saw her last Saturday. Went well, no hookup though, but she is only girl as of late who mentioned of hinting at wanting to see me again.

4) Other girl, first date off dating app, last night. Went pretty well, we made out and think she was down to hook up but things got confusing because she said she had to go take her dog out when we left the bar, still willing to give me ride home. I thought let’s not get the dog involved, seems like an excuse to get out of hooking up. Later found out she wanted to bring the dog with us (because it really had to be taken out since she had been at work since early AM and came straight from work) and have it hang with the dog at my place.

Here’s the thing, besides asking the younger girl to hang out this past Sunday, I have done no followup over text. I made my intention with each that let’s do this again. The whole “I had fun tonight, lets do this again” text night or setting up logistics after first date hasn’t been working for me lately.

My schedule is pretty busy during the week. I do jiu jitsu and have a side gig that I try to work once a week. During the week I usually have one or two nights free. One of those nights I usually go to a show, either solo or with a friends with benefits. Taking one of these girls to a show is eh as of now because none are generally into my type of music.

Should I open up my weekend nights for any of these girls? I did a 545 PM date with that Saturday one. Early evening still shows you have plans later. Other question is, what’s your standard wait time for seeing a girl for a date 2? I feel too long and any attraction dries up, too short looks too fast. See potential for something at least casual or more LT with each girl.

With my busy schedule and multiple options, having a tough time going forward. I know I should be leading and doing what I want. Guess I’m still too much of a bitch to do that without asking advice. Rest of this week I have no free nights but both Friday and Saturday are open as of now.