background

I knew this girl from high school, I was always cold to her and never gave her attention because I knew a lot of guys liked her, I didn't want to get into the drama. She was attracted to me being cold, she tried talking to me, I ignored her. Fast forward, we end up dating. She moved to another state, we broke up after two weeks. I blocked her from every social media because I did get attached and she broke up in a shitty way. 2 years pass, she moved back into the state. We talked, she got cold and disappeared. Started messing with the same guy she left me for in the other state (he moved to this state for her) he was abusive, and the ex before him was abusive too. We got close again recently (after months passing) and she wanted to be friends. I told her I cannot be friends with her. I liked her and I won't waste my time on a friendship. So we ended up dating and breaking up. I acted really beta while in a relationship. Gave her love, respect, and did what I can to help her out. She likes me but my beta behaviors were a total turn off. My reasoning is that she was with shitty guys and I wanted to be different (total beta mindset).

She started to verbally disrespect me. The first few times I let it go because I felt they were justified but I later realised they weren't. most recently, I had a stern voice with her, told her that I don't like she is disrespectful, she went off, I commanded that she stops, she completely shut up mid sentence and stays quiet until we get to her house(was giving her a ride home from work) she goes off, I ignore her, sip on my coffee, after a minute she shuts up, I tell her I got to go and she storms out saying "I'll see you never" yet she still keeps me on her social media, sends me a blank picture to keep our snap streak. She's trying to regain my beta behavior since I showed my dominant side. She claims she will never talk to me again but I know she will. Last time I dropped her for 2 years, she messaged me constantly on social media and I ignored her. She even admited she found out where I work and was going to come find me if I hadn't got in contact with her eventually.

question/advice

I know she will come back again. When she does, how do i respond? Obviously a part of me still wants her but I want her affectionate side she showed to my dominant self. How do I spot shit tests and respond to those(I'm bad with them). Lastly, I would like to make her a plate before I move on entirely. Is there a way I can use this to my advantage to get to that point?