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I just wanted to give you guys an update.

Well, I never responded to her original texts but this last week she has been blowing up my phone, telling me how we have to get back together and I am the love of her life.

We talked. We didn't meet. Finally I asked her about what the hell she was up to and why she broke up with me in the first place.

Long Story Short

She broke up because she had met another guy, behind my back. She fucked him (only once she says) and regretted it instantly, even while they were doing it... And she says she left right after, and decided that she could only ever be happy with me.

Frankly, I feel disgusted. I was with her for 7 years... As mentioned in an earlier post, I have money, muscles and a mind. I might not be a 10, but I'm a solid 9. And she did this to me after 7 years. I'm gonna do my thing for a while. It's just pretty fucking disgusting. I was over the fact that we broke up, but to know she was fucking some other guy... it stings.

She followed word for word the "light-switch effect" (google light switch effect reddit) when breaking up, and now she is following every single AWALT step.

Guys, it happened to me. Be careful out there in 2020. It's a fucking sewer.

I Have 2 Questions

I was making plans for a trip to South America in January... A fuck fest, of sorts. I had a couple of nice girls lined up, ready to fuck. Today, I told them about my situation.

  1. I got a ton of sympathy from the south american girls concerning the situation. However, my concern is that by showing my soft side, I might have broken frame. Will this gimp me in their eyes? They still seem primed. Maybe even more.

  2. Right now, I don't feel like fucking anything. Would you recommend I head south and just sport-fuck my way through it, or just say fuck it all and wait to regroup mentally?