How do I stop being so uptight? I’ve been going out sober recently and doing very well, however I’m a little too uptight with women and am seeing a pattern of fucking it up after some conversation with them. I can literally walk into a bar and pick up whatever girl due to my looks, but once I get to the conversation aspect, I start acting like a clown because Im trying to relax myself due to my uprightness which in turn upsets them and they leave. I don’t have this problem when I have some drinks in me, but how do I get to that relaxed state sober? I am capable of taking the girls home right away and have done so, not even knowing their name, but I this point getting laid isn’t that big of a priority for me, it’s fine tuning my conversation skills with women. Any advice?