Many say single mothers are great plates and fwbs. Many say the opposite:

Having said that, I've banged out my fair share of single moms. You just need to be hyper sensitive to protecting yourself. That means things like making sure she can't get pregnant and trap you, or that you'll never start to catch feelings or be conned into dealing with all the added bullshit that she's going to try to bring into your life. Most guys are too stupid to stay the course on things like that, so we just tell them flat out to avoid single mothers.

I want to bang a single mother because I am a virgin who is afraid of escalation due to my religious past. An older woman would be patient when I'm rewiring my brain to accept it is okay to have sex. They are also easy to fuck and not catch feelings.

  1. Should I go for it? Yes?

  2. Should I try to be a player/RP or should I be real (I'm a virgin, religious past)? Second option, right? Should I tell this while texting or face to face?

  3. Should I make it clear this is only for sex or is it rude to say that to someone who is gonna help me? What is the proper way to make sure she doesn't see me as a potential provider?

  4. Should I cuddle after sex and text in the morning to avoid any potential false claims just in case? Or should I treat her like I'm using her for real (no cuddling, minimal talking, no nice texts)?

I won't use my real name. If she finds out who I am from google, she might try to lock me down. Always her place.