Met her (18) online (myself 24). We went for a first date (dinner) tonight and got her back to my place. Making out during Netflix, I push/pull and she tells me she’s a virgin (whatever). We make out some more and lmr hits as kino progresses downstairs. She starts going on about how she can’t do it and how she’s saving it and sometimes sleeps over at some dudes place but has only sucked him off once and won’t do it again cause she hated it. Dated many guys, never fucked. Continues onto how she loves making out with guys she meets online but wants her first to be ‘special’ to her. I just watch the show and go cold but she initiates so I go along but we hit lmr downstairs again. Happens once more and I’m done with her lmr and I drop her off. (Part of her agreeing to come over as she’s carless and far).

Question is: for girls who claim to be a virgin and string along multiple dudes for constant validation like that, what can one do to finesse the lay?

(going cold didn’t seem to work+when I was done with her lmr I stated it was her time to leave, that was that).