Virgin Vibes

escapethesolarsystem · 2019-04-11T01:28:44+00:00

Your underlying problem is you are still worrying about this stuff, period. Look, what girls whisper behind your back doesn't matter. Girls gossip, they say all kinds of things to push themselves up the social hierarchy with their friends. Who cares.

Be confident then you will look confident. How do you be confident?

Put you, not women, first. Pursue what you want to pursue in life and if a girl wants to be part of what you're doing great, if not, that's her loss.
Fuck "maintain frame". That's for PUA's and losers. Frame is fake, achievement based confidence is real. Make goals for yourself then achieve them. Start small and work your way up. When people ask you about you, talk about what you've accomplished, what you intend to accomplish, and how you intend to accomplish it.
Know yourself. What are you good at? What are you proud of? Then put yourself in social situations and conversations that play to your strengths. Are you an amazing singer? Tell your social group you're all going to karaoke. Are you a great athlete? Invite a girl to watch you play. You think you are short of strengths? Pick a skill that can be demonstrated in a social situation and get really good at it.
Remember that women are children; with the insecurities, emotionality, and mindset of children (especially in the west and in your age range). If an 8 year old insults you, are you going to get in a pissing contest with them? Are you going to worry for days or weeks about their opinion of you? I sure as hell hope not. Girls are 8 year olds. Don't let yourself be pulled down to their level. You are better than them and their games are nothing more than mild entertainment. Keep in mind that girl you're talking to goes to bed every night thinking 5X more about her own insecurities than you will ever think about yours.
Avoid foods with soy in them. Eat foods that increase testosterone (meat, for example). Get and stay in shape. Physical health boosts mental health and mental health leads to an "unmovable rock in a storm" personality - that is, deep, unshakable confidence and courage.
Remember every 19 year old guy is a loser. Own it, then don't care. You'll never beat a 34 year old guy with two houses and a new BMW. Who cares? Put yourself on the path to be that guy in the future. You're not going to be successful by getting a few questions answered about "what to say in x or y situation" on reddit. Play the long game, and the girls you want will come when the time is right, whether that's tomorrow or in 5 years. Fuck knotch count and focus on personal growth. You're a man, you have plenty of time to reach peak you - you don't have diminishing ovaries and menopause to worry about.

Finally, every time you have sex or a relationship with a women, you are committing something to her - time, money, energy, effort. She should be happy you are doing it. Whether you've done that 1 time or 100 times before, that's none of her fucking business.

vullnet123 · 2019-04-11T02:01:23+00:00

I give off player vibes to every girl I game, it's all a matter of having a IDGAF attitude and teasing them a lot. I'm tall so I tease them about their height, mock their voice, their complaining etc.

Title	Virgin Vibes
Author	AspiringAgamemnon
Upvotes	0
Comments	2
Date	April 11, 2019 1:05 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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