Vulnerability

Grave_Heresy · 2020-11-25T18:34:24+00:00

I would say to see a therapist or a cleric (If you are religious) or a grandparent. Whatever you do please, puuuuuullllleeease do NOT open up to your lady friend.

It will backfire so bad bro. Back in my blue pill days I kept making this mistake. Every single time it blew up in my face.

Even if she asks you to. Don't do it. This is really the ultimate shit test that women do. In my experience and all of the men that I know they will hold it against you.

Initially, she may even fool herself into thinking that she finds this romantic or brave. But it won't last. She will become so resentful of you for this.

Have you ever seen all those articles being written by f÷minist "journalists" on how women are being oppressed by the "Emotional labor" they have to perform? This is what they are complaining about.

Mind you these are f÷minists the very people who want to emasculate men the most and they can't stand a man who opens up.

Im NOT saying that you don't need to talk to anyone. Find a close friend, rabbi or counselor if you feel like this is crippling you. But don't tell her that you are seeing a therapist and for the love of Doritos keep it to yourself when you are around her. They HATE men who show most emotions.

EDIT: Women hate weak men. You aren't objectively weak for having feelings but to them you are weak if you show them and they will grow to despise you for it.

a_hot_sip · 2020-11-25T19:39:34+00:00

Seems reasonable to me to want to feel emotionally vulnerable to someone, but that person has to have proven themselves as loyal. And I think there is a dynamic with your woman where you can be “vulnerable” to a point, in the sense that you can let her in a little on how you process things, as long as you are still maintaining control over your emotions; you are still unshakable in your confidence. Ie, someone close dying and you are experiencing grief. You can let her in on your grief, only if you wrap it up with control; not sobbing or “lost”. If you legitimately feel “lost” best I can recommend is an older male friend, no being “lost” in front of any women in your life. Maybe mom but only if she’s old school and again, has a history of loyalty regardless of situation. My 2c

satanic_hamster · 2020-11-25T17:51:12+00:00

Have I ever felt a ‘craving’ to be vulnerable? No. I’ve felt shit I really wanted to get off my chest, but usually I have friends or other ways to deal with it.

For women, ‘talking’ is therapy itself. They aren’t problem solvers like men are. They emotionally stroke one another and teach themselves how to be okay and get by with the problems they’re dealing with, but never to fix them. Generally speaking, there’s no real purpose to going to women with your problems.

compofoggyclegg · 2020-11-25T19:43:15+00:00

Depends what you want. If you’re looking for a feminazi fling to peg ram your back doors, or a Borderline to zone in on that moment of weakness for temporary sex to get you hooked on her orbiter list, then I say go for it man

Totally valid options if you’re just looking for something different, but try and find better outlets. Come on man, you ain’t black, you know you know the thing

Musicgoon · 2020-11-25T20:59:45+00:00

Tell your guy friends. Don't ever tell your bitch. They will store that and use it against you later.

Mr_Badass · 2020-11-25T21:27:00+00:00

Do you mean intimacy?

redhawkes · 2020-11-25T17:14:13+00:00

Test your T and E2 levels. What kind of joke this sub became.

Title	Vulnerability
Author	mashiss
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	November 25, 2020 5:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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