I feel like i'm a person who can judge people well, so I havn't felt the need to ask for advice before. But now i've come to a point where I seriously have to, because I can't for the life of me, understand what's going on.
I'm seeing a girl in a long distance relationship. I've spoken with this girl in length and alot of people who know her really well (some of her exes too).
This girl is the type of girl who likes to show her body off. Throughout her life, she's sent pictures of herself to atleast 200 people (No nudes, just sexy lingerie, bra). She likes the attention and she likes being a tease. She will bring up her boobs to guys even if they don't ask about it.
These photos would include her cleavage (she has extremely large breasts, so anything she wore would show it). She also danced infront of people in her bra and once danced with nothing but her hands on her boobs. My point is, she's really comfortable with it. If I had to estimate, she's probably done over 400 live sessions of teasing her boobs/body for people for no payment. This doesn't include the photos she's sent to all the other guys she wasn't in a live session with. All in all, she's really comfortable showing her body and she is very proud of it.
She's had multiple relationships with guys, but it's never gone anywhere, she says to me that i'm her first real love. But i've seen her previous messages, and she's said it to about 6 other guys too. But according to her, it wasn't real.
Whilst I was getting to know her, she was still sending pictures of herself and doing live sessions for guys, but at this time we wern't really a thing. Fast forward 2 months, and at this point we really like each other and we're in a relationship at this point. Currently she still speaks about her boobs to guys even when they didn't ask (not sure if this is attention seeking or teasing), but she did stop sending photos of herself to other guys. She also still likes to currently constantly flirt with other guys. (I find this uncomfortable, but i'm here for the expert advise, so you guys need to let me know if this is a problem).
Here is where the issue is: She doesn't like speaking sexually about anything to me, and she never sends pictures/videos of herself to me. She also never sends her face too. I get the odd snapchat filter face, but nothing more. When I bring it up, she get's defensive and angry. Another thing to bare in mind that, before we said we liked each other, 1 week before she was sending a picture of herself to other guys.
It's been 4 months now since I first asked for sexual pictures or even pictures of her face (that she's been doing for atleast 5-6 years), but she continiously says no. Can you guys tell me what's going on in her mind?
Did I mention she's a virgin?
Please give me the most honest answers you can, I can't for the life of me figure it out! If you need more information please ask.
EDIT: PLEASE UNDERSTAND: I don't expect pictures of her, I just want to know why she wouldn't want to send, is there something wrong with me? I want to know what's going on in her mind.
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