On Friday I planned to go on a trail with a girl and once we arrived, the rain came down so we stayed in the parking lot for a while speaking (During this time I had a good interaction with her [kino, provoked emotions, etc]) but I believe I messed up a bit at the end of our time together, as I didn't leave when I should've-- The conversation had died down a little bit + She had somewhere to go so she asked me to leave instead of me leaving myself, but I may be overanalyzing that; she may still have seen it as a good interaction overall
As I still want to go on the trail, I was planning on either:
A) Inviting her back to accompany me on the trail this week/weekend or
B) Inviting a girl I met from school to accompany me on the trail
**The only reason I'd invite the first girl (the one I sat in car with) is because rapport/comfort is already built up and I believe it would be easier to escalate with her but at the same time I don't want her to believe that I'm needy of her as I haven't heard from her since that day nor did we set up a future date to meet up (which is on me) and I was the one to initiate the first date in which I would also be initiating the second one
**The other part of me is telling me to invite the new girl and distance myself a bit from the original girl (until she reaches out or I have more options) and game more girls to develop more of an abundance mentality
(I'm new to gaming and what not; I haven't kissed/have sex with anyone yet but I have a don't care attitude to which I won't let that stop me and I'm also working on my SMV/myself so I believe that may be why she hasn't been chasing me as a woman would a man of high SMV and I also know that I need to get more options so I can have that abundance mentality + do more with my time as I believe that I shouldn't have noticed that she didn't message me back--- I will work on this)
Thoughts?
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