I'm trying to understand female behaviour a bit better anyway. I was in an long distance with this girl for a year and a half. She is a yeah and a bit older. I dumped her four years ago, because of her appaling attitude and her attempts to try and isolate me from friends/family and bossiness. She also treated me like a piece of meat to show off to her friends at times since I was around 10% body fat at 175 lbs and went gym 4 times a week, so very aesthetic. When I broke up with her, she tried getting me back in a number of ways, first by saying she is pregnant, then by sending random messages to me saying she loved me, then her wishing me happy birthday. This happened over three months. All the time, I never caved in to her and I always rejected the advances. Then she completely stopped.

My friend that was talking to her at the time, finding out what happened she told him I would never sleep with dench's friends and I'll never talk to him again. He then went super childish then insulted her, called her fat and ugly and you'll never find someone like my friend. He was pissed that she treated me the way she did and also how arrogant she was around my friends It took me a long time to get past her since she was my first relationship, despite her being totally wrong for me.

Anyway a couple days ago my friend was in her area because he was staying in a hotel. He checked in and surprise he saw my ex working at the reception, so he felt extremely awkward and so did she. But she took his reservation and then the interaction was this: Friend: shit Ex:why you saying shit for? Friend:all the horrible things I said to you ages ago Ex:no worries, it's friends and all that, plus a long time ago Friend:how are thing? Ex:yeah they are fine. Do you still talk to dench? Friend:yeah we are still friends, do you? Ex:I will never talk to him again Friend: okay. Well, have a nice day anyway Ex:you too

I'm wondering, why would she never want to talk to me again? If I saw her on the street I would probably say hi, how are things going, then go about my business, I do not want her back.