I'll do the backstory in 5-6 lines.
> Started out RP'ed (without knowing) when I met GF
> She wanted more, I gave her more. Eventually fell for her.
> Went full beta, the more love I gave her, the more she drifted away
> Fastfoward 1.5 years, I am desperate for a girl who don't want me.
> Find RP, Diagnose myself with HARDCORE ONEITIS

> Internalize RP, realize I must stop being a BP faggot
> Do what all smart men would have done; move 3000km overseas to another continent to rid myself of oneitis
> Realize she was done with me, went full no-contact and fucked a few girls over the last few months of living in Europe.
> Don't think about her anymore, don't really care about what she does.

With this said, I recieved a message from her today. It said "Hey, you are nasty. You cheated on me a couple of times?"
I am wondering what this is all about. Is this her trying to get attention after her branch swing dumped her?
Does she really still care that much about me, to care if I cheated or not?

Literally, if I got a message from a friend saying she cheated while in the relationship, I wouldn't even bother to give it a single thought. What has happened, already happened and I really don't care because I'm over this bitch.

So this post is basically not hamstering, just me trying to figure out one of the many reasons why she would re-initiate contact after 3 months, and why she would care if I cheated on her or not.

Also I'm looking for a great response that can shut her hamstering down. I know the best response is to just NOT RESPOND, and so far I have not. The only reason I would have for responding, would be to say something cocky.

Please share your thoughts TRP