What Exactly Am I Doing in the Attraction Phase

moorekom · 2018-05-04T05:41:16+00:00

Leverage some distinguishing quality in general. If you're a good talker, use that. Rsd todd didn't have a great body or a nice car but that fucker could talk the panties off of most girls. He understood dominance, stands his ground, uses what he is good at to his advantage. You may be good looking or a smooth talker, charming, have money, status etc., Use what you have.

TRPAndNofapGotMeLaid · 2018-05-04T06:23:57+00:00

Tease her. Amused mastery, be cocky funny. Maintain your frame while passing shittests.

nicksaiz65 · 2018-05-04T05:47:39+00:00

Thank you guys... I re-read it and from the information I've gathered attraction is just showing a really high value. Cause women want to sleep with high value men. So you're showing off your value and not showing TOO much interest in her. Then when you start getting IOIs, you send them back and flirt some. Then you can start moving into comfort, and yadda yadda yadda. Now that I think about it this way, I've missed some blatant IOIs that girls have given me smh.

GameAndGains · 2018-05-04T06:26:37+00:00

Attraction is about breaking rapport to trigger investment

It’s about her qualifying to you and you rewarding her for her investment.

Basically get her to talk your ear off so she can get validation or you can break rapport to make her work harder for that validation.

BlackMisc · 2018-05-04T05:19:59+00:00

peacocking buy a nice car or get really fit.

Title	What Exactly Am I Doing in the Attraction Phase
Author	nicksaiz65
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	May 4, 2018 5:16 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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