I’m 22 Im going to school for CS, I have a part time job, I go to the gym but still have a decent amount of free time.

I’ve been watching AMS and I think he’s pretty good and I’ve been focusing on my purpose and not going out of my way or leaving my house just to chase women.

The problem is, I rarely encounter any girls in my day to day life much less ones that show me interest. I try to approach women when I can and try to be friendly, but I honestly don’t really have any friends still. Because of this, I still don’t have an abundance mentality and I still catch oneitis because I really don’t have much other options even if I act like I do.

I’m decent looking, I lift, so I don’t know if there’s much else I can improve upon ij my physical appearance.

I also agree with AMS and feel like I shouldn’t be going out of my way to places like bars, parties, or clubs just to pick up girls and I should just let them come naturally... problem is it’s not working... what can I do to improve things??