What should I be working on?

zero12three · 2018-09-24T04:19:37+00:00

What should I do to improve with talking to girls?

Talk to them.

manwithoutwire · 2018-09-24T04:20:44+00:00

Talking with girls improves your ability to talk to girls. Who would have thought. Think of it like leveling up in a game where it gets exponentially harder to level up but the higher level you get the more skills and tools you have at your disposal.

If I knew where to meet girls in my dead ass town, I'd be all over putting together my own progression system, this is just an example.

Level 2 - 1 girl

Level 3 - 3 girls

Level 4 - 5 girls

Level 5 - 1 girl 6/10

Level 6 - 2 girls 6/10

Level 7 - 3 girls 6/10

Level 8 - 1 girl 7/10

Level 9 - open two set of girls and isolate 1 from friend

Etc

Or you could say screw my autistic progression system and just approach who you find attractive. Ultimately, it's a numbers game.

hottrash96 · 2018-09-24T06:12:42+00:00

Wardrobe can make a big difference while you're waiting for your gains. Make sure all your clothes fit right and are flattering, There's lots of guides out there about how to do this. If you can introduce some personal style that's great too. Good posture also increases your attractiveness/body language power instantly.

Whitening your teeth is probably a waste of time, Just brush and floss so your breath doesn't stink and you'll be fine. Hair is pretty much the same-unless it's in a really fucked up cut it doesn't matter that much as long as it's clean.

It can feel intimidating to talk to girls, believe me, I know, but especially as freshmen, lots of them are nervous too. The stuff everyone else is saying about just doing it being the best strategy is right.

Try to focus on making friends and exploring your interests. Make your goals personal and about you.

Good luck, brother.

Title	What should I be working on?
Author	veroh-
Upvotes	3
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Date	September 24, 2018 3:33 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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