Hello everyone, 21y male, and throughout these past 2 years I've been mostly in Monk mode, in order to get my life in order, which I did after a more than a year of hard work and dedication to work towards my goal, got the job I wanted and experienced life in a whole new matter.

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Now after this period I went to get girls in order to make my life even more interesting and experience some a bit of intimacy. Just last week I f closed a girl pretty fast, and was going just my way, but the issue arrived when I went back home and we were on texting.

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Texting is for me a whole different dynamic and I really suck at it. Yeah I can set the date, and mostly succeed, but when it comes after the f close I really do suck at this and often overthink shit, answer all of the message and often do not keep the 2/3 rule.

I do feel like I have to keep her at least a bit interested over texting until the next meet.

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While when I'm there, (like the last 2 times) I really play it playfully and dominantly, and it is this difference that makes me frustrated at my self, for acting all betish over text, but at least I do answer each 6-24 hours depending on when I really get to it, as I do work and enjoy life in the mean time.

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So hit me up, burn me, flame me, I really want to learn, and while this is a case of Oneitis she is not the only girl, just something on what I want to learn to be better upon, as I strive to become at least 1% better than I was yesterday.

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