When do you consider yourself ghosted? How long with no contact? Does the amount of time depend on the situation?

vodkalimesoda1 · 2019-06-25T02:05:28+00:00

It literally takes less than 15 seconds to pull out your phone and respond to someone. If she is taking hours/days to respond, consider yourself ghosted, move on and wait double the time minimum it took her to respond before doing so, although I would not respond at all in this case and walk off with my self respect in tact. Women often ‘shelf’ men and only respond when they’re looking for some quick validation or attention.

TyroneTheDriver · 2019-06-25T02:15:37+00:00

2/3 rule. Give her 2 to her 3. If you’re waiting hours for responses, you’re not a priority and your time is better spent elsewhere

faustian_talos · 2019-06-25T07:18:41+00:00

If you are asking this then you are already ghosted.

redpilllogin · 2019-06-25T06:22:15+00:00

If you attempt to meet her in person and she doesn't respond.

The SOP is to not contact her again unless she iniciates. And if she doesn't, it should be more than "hey" or something low effort fishing for attention.

Title	When do you consider yourself ghosted? How long with no contact? Does the amount of time depend on the situation?
Author	claykiller2010
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	June 25, 2019 1:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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