Ok so last year i got out of my no confidence beta shell...first 6 months got into my first relationship had sex for the first time etc...i ended things realized i was waaay out of my league and was to beta to really be happy with anyone. So last 6 months of the year i have been working on so many different areas of my life socializing, work, gym, fashion etc.

here is my issue when i go out i initiate with a girl my confidence has gone from 20% to 150% i mean before this year i honestly can say i have only approached one girl in my whole entire life( yes you are reading it correct) now i can say i have approached at least 50 in the last 6 months still not alot but for me thats a fucking turn around). I want to get more results from the approaches and i feel i am still not understanding or missing some info. so i hope you guys can help.

So we talk it goes ok i get shit tested i pass (thanks to TRP) i even get her comfortable enough to feel her ass etc but after this point its like i don't know what the NEXT shes clearly ok with me so why do i not escalate after shes this comfortable how do i break out after this part. I need someone fucking help. please don't judge im still new so learning from my mistakes and adjusting from advice as i go. but i feel after they are comfortable what is the next step kiss? number? how do i initiate the convo for taking her home to hers preferably so many questions really hope you guys can help.