30 years old. Going back to school to get nore education, work is paying for it. Trying to focus on school. But still getting horny and trying to nofap, and no escorts. Not looking for anything serious, just looking to fuck. I'm living with my family right now, trying to stack some cash to buy my own place.

So here's the situation. Been using a couple dating apps. Met this young 22 year old cutie. We went on a date, had a good time, I initiated kino. By end of the night she was holding my hand smiling and all happy. I dropped her off at home, because I had other plans. She texted me later that night saying she had an amazing time and enjoyed my company. So I msg her back, "me too, msg me when you're free and we'll do it again". 4 days later I call her to see if she's free in the next few days. She isn't, but said next week when her visting relatives leave. So i wait a week. Msg her over thanksgiving, saying she "best be fattening up for winter"(jokingly). She txts back lol, and i texted her back, and she doesnt respond after that. So I wait another 6 days before calling her, she doesn't pick up, doesn't send me a text back, so I just left it at that.

So I'm wondering what happen? First date we had a good time. She kept smiling and laughing, and I know she was having fun. Sent me that sweet text after. I thought for sure I had her. So my thoughts is, she's just on the app to get laid, because I see that she keeps on updating her picture on the app. And I didn't give it to her, so she probably found someone who did. And she's getting so much attention from other guys too. What do you guys think?

The other one is. Same thing met this old high school friend on the dating app. Went on one date, talked for an hour before ordering food, and talked for 2 more after that. Lots of laughter, jokes, and catching up on old times. Went on a second date right after, had fun. Tried initiating kino with her, but was not having any luck. But still had a decent time by end of night. I was trying to bring this girl home, but at the end of the night I could tell she was not into it, so I didnt try. Been busy studying for a week. Than I notice on my Instagram that she tagged me in a meme the day after our last date. So i texted her back making a funny comment, and mentioning we should celebrate since I did really well on my exam. Also this week compare to last week, she's taking alot longer time to respond, like a day, and sending shorter texts than before.

So the vibe I'm getting from this girl. Is that she was either looking for something more serious, and notice with all my kino and flirting that I was just looking for something more casual. And us having alot of mutual friends, she doesn't want to do anything like that. Being 30 shes probably looking for something more serious. What do you guys think?