1st date. Met a 23 y/o 7/10 outdoorsy climber girl on Tinder. Works at the Canadian Space Agency and is borderline vegan. I invite her to shoot guns and she gladly accepts. Pick her up, goes smoothly with some moments of silence. Spent the whole afternoon shooting an SKS and she had a blast. At the end of the day, asked her "What made you swipe right?" she replies "Your blue eyes" and then I immedietly say "wanna see them up close?" And kiss her. I invite her to my place but says she really gotta go eat dinner with her roommates. She never answered my texts after.

2nd date. Met a 25 y/o 7/10 classy girl at my favorite bar. I was a bit tipsy so I started talking to her. We clicked, had some mutual interests. I pay her drinks at the end of the night and we go outside. She was reluctant kissing me inside the bar but I pulled her close and started kissing, a lot. Grabbed her ass and all while she was leaning on a fence. Go to my car and escalate a little, touching her thighs and owning her body. She had to go because she has a business trip for 3 weeks for Toronto and United States. I text her a few days after and replies. A few days passes by and I text her again. No answers since.

What did I do wrong? Was I too agressive in my approach? Too fast? Or is this the norm for women today?