Hi, I'm 19 and found out about TRP roughly 3 months ago. Since then I've been trying to become a better version of myself and I can't be more happy with it.

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College started about a week ago ( It's my 3rd year ) and I cold approached this girl who piqued my interest just for the sake of practice. Overcoming AA was very hard but I felt really proud of myself after doing so because it isn't something I am familiar with. The girl I approached responded in a positive way (as in she openely conversed with me and gave me her Snapchat and IG afterwards). Texted her a bit and got a "date" whit her which was really just eating and hanging out together while we both had long breaks between our classes.

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So this is how the date went :

At first I started asking her about herself, what she likes to read, which TV shows she watches etc. Then talked a bit about myself but tried to keep it to a minimum, I have a bad habit of talking too much and not listening enough or letting others speak.

It was great ! I had a good time, tried to escalate (if you can call that escalating) so mostly touching her hands, hair, shoulders and guiding her gently through the crowd by the waist. so I cut short to the date since I had classes to attend. Didn't have the guts to go for the kiss yet, she hugged me and we went our separate ways.

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Overall I think it was a good experience. Even if I'm not able to game this girl I think it really helped me realise that I shouldn't fear women or overthink every move I make.

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My question is, where do I go from this ? Do I ask her out on a date outside of school this time ? Do I continue hanging out with her on campus ? I'm really new to all of this. Never tried PUA or text game or anything, I usually just go with the flow and try not to overthink everything when it comes to girls or even social interactions in general. I still have much to learn and would be really happy if any of you could give me some advice.

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I hope my formatting and English is acceptable since it's my first time posting here.