Improving beta here. Been visiting TRP, applying various but consistent philosophies that all attribute to becoming a better man and more successful with women.

Thing is, while i feel myself becoming a better individual (working out more, harder to manipulate, improving work ethic, focus on appearance and self care etc.), its resulting in me becoming more and more dis-interested with pursuing romantic relationships.

Originally, i was doing this because of that exact goal. Standing at 5"4 with on/off bouts of recurring depression (and a tad bit of autism thrown in), i decided i wanted to maximise my chances of finding romantic compatibility as a means for self-validation. Now, as im improving, im becoming more and more happy with improving myself and i find relationships and women an after thought.

Is this a problem when in the process of red-pilling? Is the concept about self-improvement, or is it about becoming better romantically? I don't see this as a defeat; im definetly attracted to women and i care about my presentation to them and my friends aswell. Its just something im confused about, unsure of, and would prefer to ask for advice from you guys