Why you no TRP ლ(ಠ益ಠლ)

AlphaAsFAQ · 2014-08-15T09:58:35+00:00

First off, you are 24, stop with the text faces and meme talk. If you are doing that when asking a group of men for advice you might be doing that with girls; not a good idea.

there's this ONE girl I can't move past

Look up the term oneitis. You have it. Don't worry, we've all been there.

From the words you use it sounds like she fucked you over and possibly cheated on you. If that is the case you cannot pursue a relationship with this girl. I don't care how good shes, how hot she is, how she makes you feel, you need to move on. Cheating women are never to be trusted.

Usually my advice is that time will allow you to move on from any girl but I am usually talking the span of months; this sounds like it's been going on for years. I did have a girl I was on and off with for years about 8-9 years ago. She never did anything wrong but she was the type of girl that you'd settle down with and I wasn't ready to settle so I kept pushing her away. She eventually never came back and I was thinking about her for years afterwards - what if, could have etc. Now I see her on fb with her husband, kid and all that extra weight. I feel nothing. Time will heal all.

Seeing her totally alters my lens I use to see the rest of the world, but there's a piece of me that likes it.

Girls are meant to make us feel like that. We are programmed to feel different around girls. What's important is you realise why you feel like that, biology, and how to make sure those feelings don't let you do anything stupid. TRP helps guys keep their brain in check so when "the piece of us" that likes that feeling starts trying to make big decisions for us, we can shut it down.

You sound like you have a reasonable SMV and could easily raise it further. This means that you are going to have no problems finding more girls and I guarantee a handful of them that will make this "ONE girl" seem like a goblin.

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