"Winning means being unafraid to lose." - Fran Tarkenton. I've been such a pussy. Wrapped up in my social anxiety and always envisioning myself failing while approaching has kept me from winning. While I've been winning in other areas of my life, I've been utterly losing in the context of relationships with women. I just don't want to fail. I'm afraid to. But I'm not a loser, so fuck it. Have to keep my head up while wading through the humiliation and LEARN.

Failure inspires winners. And failure defeats losers. Strange how this inspiration came from "Rich Dad, Poor Dad," a book on becoming wealthy.