It seems to me the ideal RP "groove" is working hard (career, lifting, hobbies) and spinning plates on the side.

If you are no longer spinning plates, and have an exclusive LTR for the foreseeable future by choice, how much is too much?

I wonder if spending 95% of my time doing other things, it leaves the door open for her to have a lot of alone time, increasing the odds for emotional cheating etc.

In my current situation, too much time together has not been beneficial to our relationship, but too little time seems just as damaging, even if that time is spent improving my SMV. Additionally, I've noticed it is incredibly hard to push a relationship backwards (I.E.: going from multiple days a week to once a week, going from lovey dovey shit to meeting just for sex etc.)

What are your thought?