I made a lot of mistakes with this girl. She was showing high IOIs at work and eventually just straight up asked me out for drinks. All was going well, we kissed within 10 minutes of the date. Weeks go by and we continue going out, but also with another couple now that we get along with who is also working at the same place. A snap chat group was made where all of us are in it. (This is important later) So time goes by and I ask her to hang out alone, and she usually has some excuse. I asked her if everything was cool between us, and told asked her why we only see each other now when its with the other couple. (Mistake) One day I just straight up tell her I'm coming over to see her new place and she agrees. We have sex, (took 1 month for this point) and I went full beta bitch. I was a virgin, and not experienced with TRP before this. I told her that she was my first, and also my first kiss.(Again a mistake?) About a week after we have sex we go on a road trip with the other couple, and she is showing extreme disinterest in me now. We didn't make out the whole trip, no sex, it was like I was a ghost. I believe this is due to her now knowing that I did not have any other chicks on the side. I am in decent shape and not bad looking, so I believe she pictured me as a different man and now just fully lost interest. After telling her I'll come over to hers again a week after the road trip, she said not that night she has class and work. I told her I would come up tomorrow instead, to which she replied I have class and work every day this week. She said nothing else after that. I started a soft next (or she started one with me) and have been ignoring the group chat to which shes very active in with our friends for 2 weeks now. I haven't gotten a personal text/snap from her yet. So my question is, is this fucked? Should I continue to next her until she contacts me? (she is still viewing my snap stories while I ignore hers). Should I leave the group chat or will that show I'm butt-hurt? I will not be making these mistakes again.