Hello. Not sure if this is the best place for posting this, but here goes.

I've never been succesful with women, 27 year old. I've been single most of my life. Except for a few lucky one night stands and random hookups that happened along, and lately someone who I actually dated, but only lasted a month.

I somehow don't feel worthy of women. Even though I have my own life, outgoing, hobbies(actually a few exciting ones) that I could share with an SO, nobody seems to want to tag along. Finnancial status is good, so I'm set. Currently pursuing higher personal goals.

Looks aside, I'm fit. 6 ft tall, started lifting pretty hardcore last summer and have leaned out and put on a bit of mass. I don't have the body of a greek god, but for the first time in my life, I can see my abs, got a v taper and some other good stuff, like shoulders sticking out. Face wise, meh, I'm not Brad Pitt and I look a tad too young for a 27 year old. Few people have told me I'm attractive, but I never considered myself so, not even with my ''new'' body. I don't, since I'm single, and not even getting any IOIs from anyone as of now. I used to be out of shape in my mid 20s, people have congratulated me on my phyisical transformation, work mates, few friends, and a few gym bros. But even though my body looks above average now, still no women.

About not feeling worthy of women,

Being single for so long is so deeply ingrained in my brain, it actually renders my normal state. When I dated this chick, I felt STRANGE. I actually was not single. One time I was waiting for her to come out of her place, upon seeing her I just said "Hello" with a smile, and expected to just go about our way. She actually came running to me, jumped in my arms and kissed me, then grabbed my hand and we went our way. This felt very weird to me, it's something I've never experienced before, felt uncomfortable. I had no idea what to do. In my mind I was like, "wow, she holds my hand? she initiates kiss? what the hell do I do not to fuck it up later? Grab her by the waist while walking? I can kiss her whenever i want! But not too much so she won't think I'm needy. How the fuck does she find ME attractive? What does she even like about me?" All kinds of shit like that. Yeah, sad, I know. Finally, girl I'm interested in, actually likes me back.

Anyways it didn't last long. Could have been beautiful. She suddenly lost all that interest, or at least that's the vibe she gave me, but that's another story.

I do approach women I'm interested in, when I feel it's appropriate. But got rejected most of the times. Also I've got no other women to game at the moment.

I did learn a lot about myself, how to handle girls, what to do, what not to do, topped up with some self improvement books. Yet still, while I am a better man than yesterday, I still am single, and feel unworthy/unwanted. But that's somewhat my normal state, as I said, because being single for so long has taught me that way.

I tried looking at myself from an outer perspective, and I seem like a decent bloke. Aside from being socially clumsy at times, and not dressing at my best(lack of fashion), there's nothing that puts me below a skinny guy, or a short fat dude with girls.

Realising this, I think my main problem may be a psychological one rather than unnatractive phyisical traits, or my ability to game girls.

I actually have some people ask me:

"How come you don't have a gf?" and I'm like:

"I don't know, because no one is really interested in me? No idea."

There were a few girls that were actually interested in me throughout my life. I did reject them because I didn't find them attractive myself. So that doesn't count. All of the ones I had a crush on rejected me, except the one I've dated before she would reject me.

Have you ever felt like this? I have no idea how to break this barrier.