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Wrong. I didn’t call her out on it. When she finally texted back she said “my bad I was knocked out” Secondly, she’s a night owl and I always fall asleep before her because she normally doesn’t go to bed until about 3am. She’s lives on a college campus and her and her roommate are always up late at night. There have been one or 2 other times when she’s fallen asleep early and both times she eventually texted me around 1 or 2am that she fell asleep and then she’s awake for the rest of the night. Her falling asleep at 8pm and not waking up or texting back until 10am the next day is VERY unusual for her. You think I’m over analyzing because you don’t know the full context of the situation. I’m probably not gonna hold it against her because I don’t have any proof that she wasn’t sleep, but me being suspicious of the situation is not unreasonable
[–]jsbach123 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Bro, you're not gonna succeed with women if you freak out over a text that doesn't get answered til the next morning.
People lie over trivial things all the time. Maybe she just didn't want to write to you or she was watching Netflix.
Hell, she might have indeed been with another guy. Until she promise to be your girlfriend, she can see whoever she wants.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
And let’s circle back to your last paragraph. Did you really just tell me that I should be okay with girl I’m dating getting banged out by another guy because we haven’t made it official yet???? Please tell me that’s not what you meant
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sigh this is one of the reasons I’m damn near ready to delete Reddit. You guys always assume everyone on here is a loser just like you and that they need your advice on how to succeed with women. I have no problem getting bitches bro, I was just asking for general opinions on what you would do. Not a lecture about some shit I already know
[–]jsbach123 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Very few guys will freak out just because she doesn't answer your text until the next morning. So to answer your question, most guys won't do shit and just accept it as normal.
It seems you think everybody on Reddit is weird and you're one of the few sane ones.
[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Freak out? I literally only posted in it here because I was bored at work and saw another thread that was posted in here. This chick isn’t even the only chick I’m dating, she’s just my favorite. I was just wondering what you guys would do. I was expecting some replies like “nah I wouldn’t trip over it” or “nah it’s probably nothing as long as I doesn’t become a common occurrence” instead I get replies for AH like you telling me I don’t know anything about women and that even If she was out bouncing on another guys dick it doesn’t matter because she isn’t technically my gf yet…it’s dumbass replies like that the piss me off make me think everyone on Reddit is a cuck and a loser
[–]omega05 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Look how mad you get at random internet strangers when they say something you don't like. Look how you came to reddit because one girl didn't respond back to your text the same night.
Come on man you can't play the "I get bitches" card asking a question like this
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tell me you don’t get bitches in real life without telling me you don’t get bitches. Any guys that’s out here really fucking hoes will tell you that these females will cheat and lie about being sleep without a second thought. You clearly gets no bitches in real life or you a simp if you think men should just believe Anything a woman says even if it doesn’t sound right. Click on the link below so you can educate yourself about what’s really going on in the world idiot 🤡 https://twitter.com/oloni/status/1439558145244901378?s=46&t=sa07vrz0TRHBARxr0VvLYw
[–]hi_im_luke17 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Damn having a whole war in the comments rn. Look man shit happens I’m currently on delivered rn and it’s been like 4 hours idrk idrc. Just relax and stop posting stuff you see on Twitter of all places that’s like using Reddit as a source on an essay. She texted you back that’s all that matters she could’ve left you on delivered for months so consider it a win. If you’re really sitting there contemplating about if this girl was out fucking someone you got something you might want to work on.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh great another person who’s missed the point. At least you don’t sound as stupid as the other guys who replied. I’m not “contemplating on whether or not she was out fucking another guy” I just think her falling asleep for 14 whole hours when she’s never done that before was suspicious. Since this is a seduction page I just decided to ask you guys in a “hey bro, does this sound suspicious to you?” Manner. But Instead of getting simple yes or no answers like I do from my friends I get replies from Reddit scholars. YOU GUYS are the ones making the situation bigger than it really is and writing think pieces about it. I literally stated in the first sentence that I know how I’m gonna proceed, I just thought it was suspicious and wanted other opinions on it.
[–]hi_im_luke17 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well here, I won’t lie the way you worded it honestly sounded like you made a big deal about it. But here’s my two cents, no don’t worry about it. I’ve slept for stupid long hours before it’s rare but it happens. If you want since you guys are ‘dating’ talk to her about it. Or don’t worry about it and just move on. There’s my opinion
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow, a logical, reasonable, and well worded response to my question. That’s all I ever wanted, thank you so much.
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