Hey whats up guys. The past couple nights i have been going out i have been thinking "man I need to write a field report and shoot it to seddit" but i've been busy so i'm going to compile everything that I can into a couple bullet points that hopefully you guys can use at some point

1.) In a closing situation, worry about building attraction more than getting the number

When you are wrapping up with a girl, make sure your closing attitude is more nonchalant and attraction building then solely worrying about getting her number. It can come off as needy, and you want the last thing she remembers about you to be that you displayed value and were attractive, not that you were needy and needed her number. Because without attraction, the number is pointless. It's like a key to an empty treasure chest. Your main focus should be making sure to put something in the treasure chest rather than just getting the key. because a key to an empty treasure chest is meaningless.

2.) When a girl is dancing on you, don't touch her with your hands. I know this seems weird and counter intuitive, but in my extensive experimental studies, girls will work harder to turn you on and be more attracted to you when grinding if you don't touch them with your hands. This is solely my experience based on about 30 girls, that if i resist touching them they eventually turn around to make out with me, where as if i place my hands on their ass or their waste that eventually they turn down their meter.

This could be solely based on me as a person, and if you are good at dancing with girls keep doing your thing, I'm just sharing what i've experienced. I know it seems weird that escalating would actually do the opposite, so when I dance with a girl I try to prove this theory wrong and touch her after a while to let the attraction build, but for some reason it is just fool proof to never touch her with your hands and let her just grind on your dick until she is ready to make out.

One would think that touching would ramp up her sexual attraction, but my field experiments have been very differently telling. My rationale on the matter is that its some evolutionary psychology thing where if you aren't touching her, that must mean that you are too good for her. And if you are too good for her, then you must have better genetics than her and therefor she would be lucky to have a chance at mating with you and would therefor pursue it.

Again, just my findings/thoughts.

1. Some guys have great inner game. Don't beat yourself up that your style is not the same as theirs, because some of the most important things to convey are authenticity and being comfortable with what you are portraying.

Last night and tonight I watched two guys who were very aggressive with their game and it seemed to come naturally. The first guy was Asian, and seguayed into his pickup by telling stories about how hard Asian parents are on their kids, and how they always used to beat him and spank him. Wasn't told in a sad sympathetic "feel bad for me tone" but rather funny.

Anyways some girl started making fun of it and he started spanking her telling her that he would teach her like his parents taught him. Of course in anything but a perfect context this would come off as creepy but it worked in this moment and I was kind of proud of the guy. You could tell the girl was actually really into it and she was getting turned on by getting dominated by the guy. This was in front of people at a party, but it didn't seem to matter. Some traits he had that made this work were that he was really sociable and comfortable. He did this weird thing where he would open his mouth to mimic laughing every time he said something he thought was funny but it worked.

Anyways, the girl said something about him acting like a caveman but you could tell that she was totally into it. Her instincts must of told her that since he was so confident, and was already confident in controlling her body, that he must have been a good mate. Not sure if they slept together because I left, but I'm sure it happened.

Tonight I was at a different party talking to a really pretty girl and I told her that I started my acting career last week and got an agent, and she was so into it. I could have made a move on her but I already had sex like an hour before that so I wasn't really going for the kill.

Anyways some really drunk guy with pretty much little to no game came around and was super aggressive and was grabbing her inner thighs and eventually making out with her.

The thing that both of these guys had in common was A.) they were clearly outcome-independent and did not give a fuck whether what they did worked out or not, but they committed to it 100% without any hesitation.

Sort of like a backflip on a trampoline. You just have to believe that it will work, have no doubts, and just throw yourself into it and commit to it 100%. Then when it works the first time you're like "damn that was kind of exhilarating I wanna do that again"

second trait they shared was B.) they were super aggressive and confident.

Sort of ties into my backflip analogy about just going for it and not giving a fuck. They just went for it without thinking twice and it worked out.

One of my favorite quotes from one of my role models, Jordan Belfort:

"The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it."

4.) when you're texting a girl, don't ask her questions and don't try to make platonic conversation

When you first meet a girl and you get her number, nothing wrong with building some rapport and getting to know her so she feels comfortable with you.

but don't always be that guy texting her boring ass questions like "How was your day?"

Girls respond way better 10/10 with texts that

A.) Challenge them. Make them feel like they are working for your affection. The whole process is not only easier, but more appealing to them if you can set up a frame where they are the ones that are actually chasing you.

B.) Make cold reads about their life instead of asking questions. Nothing is more unattractive to a girl then someone who is indecisive and unsure, and asking questions is essentially you making yourself seem like you need to be validated by their answer, which pretty much no girl wants to deal with.

I was txted a girl who lives in my apartment and was like " Hey what are you up to?"

^ thats a fine opener depending on your relationship/ how you follow up

She said she was eating something and asked what about me, and I told her I was writing a rap. she was like why and I said i'm about to drop a hot ass mixtape. We already discussed that she loves Drake, and she was like "what are you trying to be the next drake" and I was like "I'm a little harder" and she was like "nothing wrong with Drake thats my husband" and I said "you kinda flirty for a married woman"

And she immediate turned the conversation sexual and was like "Damn is that why I'm not wifey material? I always wondered why guys were just trying to fuck"

Because I made the read about her life, going along with a joke/conversation but going beyond that and telling her things about herself instead of asking things probably made her subconsciously attracted because she was like "damn I don't even know myself so if this guy knows me then he definitely adds value to my life because I so need that"

Anyways long story short, the takeway from this read is don't be a pussy and be the opposite and girls will like it.

Remember, girls don't always get approached/ gamed. Probably happens to the average hot girl 3 times a year at MAX but in most cases has happened either 0, 1, or 2 times in their life.

Girls biologically start looking for a mate when they become fertile, and peaks in the ages of 20-25

be that guy that she wants to mate with