Have known this girl for about 6 months now, we’re cool, she’s sexy and a bit wild which had me wanting to do all kinds of shit with her. Fast forward to the last 2-3 weeks and I’ve started to become more interested in her. We’ve engaged in good convos and she’s began to touch, rubbing a tattoo down my arm for instance and recently referred to me as a succubus, I’m a dude btw so this intrigued me, (probably thinking way too much into it) her words were”ant the succubus, who gets all the ladies”. Now, she doesn’t know me like that, where ladies came from I do not know but to me it was weird. So there’s that

Same day, I’m waiting for a bus to go home and she walks past me, taps me on the shoulder and says see ya later succubus!.. not gonna lie, I asked her to repeat the way she just said that because it sounded proper sexy. She laughs, but is also on the phone and needed to crack on with her day. As she’s going into a store she looks back and gives me a big smile. That’s friendliness, I get that. But the succubus and ant getting all the ladies is playing on my mind.

Now, a couple days later I decide to message her on WhatsApp asking if she was in college today... bla bla bla, that was near enough a week ago and no response, I’m here thinking shit is she good? I decide not to message again because I don’t want to come across as too interested in her, plus I have my own shit to deal with so I detach myself from it, something I’m very good at doing but it’s been detrimental to me in the past. Today I see my phone ping from a group chat me and her are in. It’s her just asking something. I respond in the chat telling her I did message you like a week ago, i see how it is (was making a little joke of it) she doesn’t even respond to that.

What do I do from here? I’m thinking I know where I stand now so move on, it’s all good but everything that was happening prior to that has me very confused. As people have probably gathered from reading this. Do I confront her about it when I next see her? I don’t want to come across as intimidating but I don’t want to be taken for a fool either.

Thanks for reading this. I know it’s long but man am I confused as shit right now...