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[–]jetski9293 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Super busy. Speak another time.
Man, this brings up pain. I would not follow up, let them reply.
[–]ZigZag80D 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The balls in her court and you should leave it there. You already showed enough interest already and if you text her again you'll come off too desperate. If she wants to respond she will, if she doesn't she won't and that will be your answer. Just leave it alone, forget about her and move on to the next one. If she eventually responds that's great. I've been doing dating apps for a long time. One thing I've learned is to keep your expectations low. It's hard but you can't let your emotions get involved in someone you haven't even met yet. Also, most interactions don't lead to anything more than just texting. Another thing is don't give 100% of your energy to only one girl. Especially on dating apps, you should be playing the field. Hope that helps! Best of luck, my friend!
[–]Extreme_Ad_1032 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you! This was helpful.
We got on well on the phone. I replied before I threw this post up, about 4/5 hours after her text, just 'Cool. Sounds good'. I'll leave at that.a
[–]192335 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't rush anything.
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