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[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Seems like you're just generally oblivious to the signals women are giving. No problem, we all have to work on that issue. I don't think that "easy on the flirting" was shutting you down, sounded more like teasing. You could have teased her back with 'but hey that guy in the pic is way hot." The feeling your arms was a regular kino opportunity. You had the woman at your house, she's feeling you up, you weren't feeling her up, no close.
Start reading the sidebar materials, you need some basic skills. This looks like it was a classic setup, you should have ended up in bed but you didn't push for the close. And this was a setup from your wingman, so if he set you up with this woman, it was a done deal. All you had to do was not blow it.
[–]tickler_of_pickles 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the criticism. I am a bit of a newbie, yes, but most of the girls i scored were because i closed with them. Honestly, while i was getting felt up, something didn't click in my head to say "Hey, she's touching your arm in a seductive way, go for a kiss at least." I sometimes do have a problem either building kino or closing, because either i overthink the closer, or i hesitate or linger when i kino. So the sidebar is where my sponge will soak up all that it can until i call it a night. (which i highly doubt.)
[–]quickadvice12 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It doesn't really sound like easy with the flirting was a bad thing or anything you should have payed more than a moment of attention to. She told you pretty directly how she felt by coming over to your house and touching your arms without you asking. I don't really understand why you are confused
[–]tickler_of_pickles 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I can be an idiot at times where i confuse myself without no logical purpose though hahaha. And yes, that makes both of us though why i was confused. Honestly, i can say that i kinda wussed out of that one. I can have my days though!
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides.
I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE
Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
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