APPLY PRESSURE! | Create an interaction that makes you stand out |

Glapierre · 2020-05-22T15:58:29+00:00

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This is a topic that pertains to opening and hooking a set.

A lot of guys go in a set and think they just have to self amuse on the open

They talk about whatever they want to talk about, makes statements rather than asking questions etc

That’s all really good advice. The problem is this...

When a girl has just met you and doesn’t know you, her immediate assumption is that you are the next typical average guy

If you’re well dressed, properly kept, and carry yourself well it can help, but you’re not really going to set yourself apart too much

Unless you do something very early on in the interaction to snap her into a different one, you’ll be fighting an uphill battle

While self amusing and offering value are good advice, I do something very early on in the set that asserts a frame.

It asserts that I believe that I am amazing, maybe the girl is a little ridiculous, or it asserts some kind of cockiness or challenges her in some way

It does two things

It gets on her radar. It makes the interaction fundamentally different than others interactions she’s been with in the past. It’s not a casual pleasant conversation. It sets itself apart
It puts you in a crucible. You’re creating heat in the interaction. You’re creating an impasse which creates conflict that requires both parties involved to stop it

If you assert that frame and she goes along with it, then things can go very smoothly from that point on

If you assert the frame and she challenges it or rejects it, then that’s what’s called a shit test

And the beautiful thing about a shit test is that when you pass them, that is an honest signal of value

You shouldn’t care too much if you get a shit test or negative reaction, because it’s better than a bland normal interaction

Very early on in the first 30 seconds to the minute of the interaction, do something to get on her radar. It can be a shit test or disqualifier or a neg. Do something to make the interaction into a crucible. Apply pressure to the interaction like heat and watch a diamond create itself from it.

Good Luck!

Title	APPLY PRESSURE! \| Create an interaction that makes you stand out \|
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	10
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Date	May 22, 2020 3:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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