I am getting 2 days off next week (Wed and Thurs) and am going to just go out all day, or most of it. I have never really approached women at 23 years of age, I'd like to change that. I read enough on here that there's not much more to get out of r/seduction without doing approaches.

Some history on my limited experience with women. Feel free to skip to get to the main questions

I've been reading this place for 6-8 months now? I took a lot of this advice to heart and feel comfortable/confident enough about myself to start approaching now.

The limited sexual experience I have with women has all been online. Trough a few venues I've found over the years (Some games, some forums, some chats) Before I started reading this sub, I had basic friendly interactions with these women I met. In the last 6-8 months, I've gotten a lot of the girls from those same places to get a lot more sexual with me.

Got 5 of them to get naked on Skype with me and just have fun with whatever came to our minds (As much as you can trough video chat). Sexted 15-20 girls and discussed wild fantasies about things we'd do to each other, played it out in chat multiple times trough a week. I was told by almost all of them they felt more comfortable opening up to me about their fantasies then any other guys they met trough these websites, games and life in general. Many of them weren't looking to do any of that and were just relaxing. Half of them dint even think they would do it because they tought I'd be weird.. But gave it a try with me anyway.

All of them I was physically attracted to, anyone I wast I stopped talking to or kept it friendly. Had you told me a year ago I'd get the experiences I did.. I'd laugh you out of the room. I tough I was ugly, had a horrible non masculine/sexy voice, and had a horrible view of my personality.

I now love my voice and use it to seduce as much as anything, am extremely confident in my looks, think I'm building a solid life with a great personality behind it and have no issue escalating a topic in a sexual way, flirting or anything else (Over voice/skype/text*)

Questions/Advice request!

  • I dont enjoy drinking. I definitely dont want someone who drinks regularly and would lose attraction pretty fast if they did. Smoking is a straight up "Never". This makes bars/clubs out, I won't meet the people I want to at them.
  • I moved from a huge city to a place with literally 20x less population. It's still in the 200-300k range, but It feels empty compared to where I moved from. I also have about 2 friends here compared to.. A lot more in my old town. Going out with friends or in a group isnt much of a option.
  • Speaking of the above, I see most people in their 20's here always in a group. I can approach a girl alone, I dont think I can if theirs 2-3 of them to start off.
  • The only places I can think of that I can go out to have fun and meet young people are the beach and malls. The bah just seems like it would be too difficult considering girls will be wearing almost nothing. I definable will be going once I start approaching more, but not to start. Mall seems to be the plan for now, not sure where else to go? Advice would be great!
  • Lastly, what should my expectation be? If you read my history I'm not sure what to take away from those interactions. Generally I'm thinking to ignore them and act like I've had no experience. Face to face is a whole different game and I'm sure the same things I do online wont work in real life until I'm comfortable around being physically with women in a sexual way.

Thanks for any advice, looking to read it all and start approaching women from next week and on every day after. Currently working from 7 am to 10 pm, 2 jobs, daily. Those 2 days off I refuse to spend home like I have since I've moved to this town. Time to get out and take all the shit I learned and do it, in reality.