Hi Everyone, so yesterday i(M26) had everything set up to go out with my friends, but suddenly a last minute call came through and they all bailed out on me, since i was already dressed up, i told myself let's enjoy ourselves and have a great night, and that's exactly what i did.

Later that evening i went to a local bar/club and grab a drink at first i wasn't feeling loose, and it helped me feel relaxed(when you go out alone the fear of being seen as the creep guy in the room can make you overthink a lot), after a couple drinks i wasn't drunk but i was feeling myself dancing and having a blast, that's when i realised that it takes way more courage to go out alone than picking up girls with your boys any given friday. As the night went on, i was trying to have the balls to approach but i couldn't find it in myself, i realised that when i pick up girls with my boys it is all ego related, so i chose to be by myself and that's when things just went way over my expectations, all of sudden i was approached by 2 girls( one of them being an 8 the other one a 9), i didn't even ask and both gave me their number, we took a couple shots and all of a sudden they dissapear(red flag), they were only trying to drink for free, we live we learn, but after that my stock just raised, groups of girls were coming and trying to cross my personal space, until the moment a milf chose to approach me and be overtly sexual. I was done for the night.

A couple of thoughts i gathered that can sum up seduction in night clubs

Pro Tips:

-Don't go out to pick up numbers, more times than not unless you built some type of connection you'll be ghosted.

-See yourself as a brand, don't try to pick up women, because if you don't have sucessful approaches, that one girl that is striving to be with you will lose interest.

-Don't buy women drinks, they lose respect for a guy very easily, once they think you're trying to buy them.

-Talk less, actions speak louder than words, when you give women space for them to show you their caracter they will feel that you're worthy of their attention, and will try to give you the world.

-Don't think be yourself at all times, if you're a dickhead be a polite one but don't try to be something you're not just to make her feel like a princess, women love to be dominated.