As you'll know from lurking around this thread for a while, or just from basic advice, confidence is one of the biggest keys in "the game".

Confidence, or a lack thereof, can cause severe AA and kill your game altogether, so knowing how to trigger your confidence is a big key.

Everyone has certain strengths and everyone has self-doubts/ confidence killers. Knowing which ones to focus on can be the difference between being socially awkward and being alpha, or at least outgoing.

I'll use myself as an example because I have a good mix of both personal strengths and traits that could potentially lead to self-doubt.

I'm (very) short, 5'5 at best. I have sporadic eczema that breaks-out without warning and can absolutely cripple confidence. I have a nasally voice that hurts to hear.

But do I let these things prevent me from having a normal social life and success with the ladies?

No, I simply ignore these traits and focus on my strengths.

I'm smart (2300+ on sat) (still in high school so that's my benchmark) I have a very good natural physique (7-8% body fat with little work, hypertrophy comes very easily) etc.

If you can find your strengths, like I did, and hone in on them, the only thing standing in your way will be practice, practice, practice.

Stop thinking about your weaknesses. If you focus on them, she will too. If you play to your strengths, your confidence will shine through.

So go do some soul searching if need be, because everyone has strengths just waiting to be exploited and developed.

tl;dr: ignore weaknesses, be confident, be alpha.