This is just a guide that I composed of my personal opinions. Feel free to add, correct, or critic.

First of all, for this guide to actually help, you must be in a positive mindset. If your current mindset is negative it is because you are either dwelling in past or worrying about the future. Stop feeling bad about yourself, it gets you nowhere. Before you read get into a clear state of mind realizing that the past is behind and that you control your future.

Even if you have never had a girlfriend this will help you.

Just because you have never had a girlfriend that doesn't mean you never will, I strongly believe there is someone for everybody. Even if you don’t talk to many girls there is probably one just as sad, that would die to know that you would like to take her out. Who knows it might be her first date. If you want a girlfriend then stop looking at looks first it clouds your brain, that same girl is probably really awesome. She might even have some crazy awesome talent like sing, or playing the piano so beautifully that it brings tears to your eyes. Who knows she might just be a sex-crazed gamer that likes to smoke weed, but you’ll never know because her boobs aren't perfect enough for you or she has a flat ass. Who fucking cares? She has a vagina and she would love nothing more but to be with you and do all those activities and more. Start out by talking to everyone, its the most common and first tip in seddit so DO IT! Once you are comfortable enough to talk to girls, start talking to any random girl seriously the next time you see a girl just talk to her and get to know her. You don’t have to like her or even find her attractive, just make friends with her. Disregard sex for a minute of your life and actually get to know someone new. Who knows you might create a connection with her and even though she wasn't that pretty to you at first, once you create a bond that person you might start to find them more attractive. Once you fall in love with her. Nothing in the world will matter because she loves you back. Just be careful if this is your first love. It will be a tough break up for you, so try and break up mutually. Understand that things aren't as great as they use to be. You can even take a break for a bit and see new people, and if while doing this all you can think about is her I’m sure she will probably be too. If she doesn’t you have to let yourself know that it’s probably over. Just remember all the good times you had and all the new ones you will have with someone else. But you will never get to experience this unless you talk to her. Seriously if she is sitting all lonely in the back of class just go sit down with her. Don’t worry about what to say. Just introduce yourself to her and let the conversation flow. If you can’t think of what to say just ask something about her. Anything, it can be what her favorite subject is and then when she says what then ask why or tell her yours. If she thinks you weird then tell her you’re just making casual talk. If she still thinks your weird then just move you don’t need her validation. Go on to the next girl! When it comes to asking her out just casually ask her if she has any plans this weekend. Make sure you have established a relationship first. That can be from being study partners or just talking in class enough, just make sure you are comfortable enough with each other where it won’t sound creepy or too soon. Make sure you have a car by the way; no girl wants to pick up their date. On the date go do something you like(she should be able to enjoy it too), if she sees you’re having a good time she will see that your fun and she will most likely be having fun too. When it comes to talking on the date don’t stress she is already going out with you! Just casually talk like any other day in class. Ask her about her day or if she saw the latest movie. One tip is, don’t be afraid about being sexual, especially when you are just joking around. Girls love this. If you go to mini-golf course or anything like that make a bet and say whoever does worst has to give the other a kiss on the cheek. One thing about kissing is if you feel like you should be kissing her, DO IT! Start by looking in her direction without shifting your gaze, then look at her lips and then back to her eyes. By now you should feel the sparks flying. Go in smooth and light and softly kiss her nothing too big for the first kiss. Now slowly backup a little and look at her if she is smiling go in again and do your thing. If you don’t know how to kiss watch videos or practice on your hand. It’s much easier than you think. Even if the kiss goes bad just laugh it off, I’m sure she’ll laugh as well (at the situation, not you). At the end of the date make sure to walk her up to the door. If you haven’t kissed her yet now is the time to do it. Always do this, it drives women crazy. Have you seen on TV where the couple kisses at the doorway and then she walks in collapse against the door in bliss? That actually happens. Imagine you’re going to be the only thing on her mind tonight and the following day. If you don’t kiss her on this first day don’t worry, this happens on a lot of first dates. But aim to next time. If you have gone on a few dates with her and she still hasn't kissed you ask her why, tell her you've been craving to kiss her since the first date. If she is unresponsive and just plays it off then abort, she is probably either messing with you or she may just not like you. If it’s the latter one then she will probably just wants to be friends which isn't bad, she might have friends she can hook you up with, don’t be afraid to ask her, if she liked you enough to be friends then her friends will most likely like you too. Just don’t end up chasing her by being her friend and hanging out with her on a friendly level; this is getting friend-zone, never put yourself in this position. If you are going on a date, always state it is a date. It lets her know that you’re interested if she doesn't already know and it doesn't create confusion. It can be pretty awkward to go in for a kiss and she thinks you guys were just hanging out. If all goes according to plan ask her to be your girlfriend after a couple good dates. Just don’t get too attached at first. Major turn off. If she gets too attached you might have to make a hard decision whether or not you want to risk it. When one person is overly attached to the other and the other doesn't not respond with the same energy it can only spell trouble. You’ll get tired of her eventually or vice versa. This is where cheating happens. Relationships are mutual you should only put in as much as she does. Now go and share your lives together for a little while. Who knows you might get married; have two kids and a cat. Anything is possible. In the event you don’t get married just repeat the process. If you don’t know where to meet women join a class or club that has always intrigued you. There is a good chance you will meet ladies there that share your interest in whatever. Make sure to always have an actual attraction towards her. You can’t force it, it just happens on its own, trust me you’ll feel it. If you try to force it on yourself just to get laid you will lose all, if any attraction you thought you had with her afterwards. If she liked you enough to have sex with you and then you leave her in dust, you are messing with her emotions. This makes you a douche bag. Don’t be a douche bag; simply tell her that you don’t feel that way about her, and that you don’t want to play with her emotions. I’m sure she’ll understand, if she does blow up on you then you just saved yourself from a bitch. And remember always be a GENTLEMAN! Stay Classy Seddit.