Being cold

STD_Tyler · 2020-06-01T05:20:14+00:00

Be fun and care free man. Don't pretend to be cold or a dickhead, that doesn't work and attractive girls will read all your BS...

SlasherMasher1870 · 2020-06-01T08:34:03+00:00

The advice in the thread, Jesus Christ.

By being cold, it's implied that you're not a goof ball asking the women 248403 questions in the span of minutes. You're not putting her on a pedestal and you're not her little comedy buddy that has to constantly entertain her.

If you're a serious guy on a serious date with another serious adult, you're gonna have to act like one. Respect/Trust/Love/Attention is earned. You dont give it to random strangers in the hopes that they will give back the same.

Atgy1996 · 2020-06-01T10:16:03+00:00

In business terms, we coin this as "delivering value without expecting a certain outcome". we can't always control the outcome, we can only control the actions we take and manage our expectations

Essentially, you are fully present in the moment and saying what YOU want to say even if it might offend her inadvertently (dickhead).

U realize she's not the only girl in the world and that ultimately ur happiness depends on yourself or comes from within (cold)

quinnmcd · 2020-06-01T16:33:35+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

zaccyo777 · 2020-06-01T07:46:06+00:00

Being/acting 'cold' is a bad idea. Who gave you that idea? Approaching and speaking to girls, definitely starts with mind set and your view of yourself, women and the world in general. Being cold is not a helpful part of any of the basic psychology of speaking to women. Drop that idea immediately.

You want to take a step back from whatever your problem is - and ask yourself some basic questions about the way you see yourself and women. First thing you can do is drop the idea of putting on any kind of act. I bought a mini course on the psychology of women, and it changed my life. It all starts with you, not any secret pick up line, or act, or anything like that.

Title	Being cold
Author	SlasherMasher1870
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	June 1, 2020 5:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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