Two weeks ago I wrote FR about meeting a hostess in a market and taking her number (doesn't matter I guess). Since that moment we met about 7 times, 4 times last week and 3 times this week.
In the beginning I thought she was crazy about me, because she was almost always initiating conversations through text messages. I set up a few meetings as she did also.
I wasn't afraid of touching her, started on the first date, trying to hold her hand, what she refused after a few seconds, but that was ok. On each meeting I was trying to move on and go for a kiss, but each time I was trying being closer to her, it looked like she was escaping it. I'm not sure... maybe I started too early ?
In general, I'm a "funny" type of guy what she really likes, but at some point, I guess, I could made myself too funny, which eventually put me in a role of "funny text generator" aka clown... But to clear some things... I wasn't too nice for her, to be honest I feel more like a "bad boy" around her, I tease her, make jokes of her, sometimes telling rude things (but not hurt her).
Yesterday during walk, I grabbed her hand once again. She asked why I'm doing this. I told her - "because I want, and if I want to do something I simply do it". I grabbed it once again and she accepted it.
Today I asked her, why she meets with me and writes to me all the time. She told me, It's nice to have a friend in here because rest of her friends are from other cities around. She asked me the same question and I said that I really like to spend time with her, because I feel good.
I realized that I found too much time for her during last two weeks - I spent most of my free time with her, but I thought that will lead eventually to something more.
Edit. Some additional facts that could count are that, she broke 2 days earlier before I got her number. There is 6 year difference between us. She's 19, but I must admit that she acts really mature at most situations.
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