Hey guys.

I'm late 20's, good job, 6'0 and 150, skinny but in shape and do tons of outdoor stuff so I've got my external stuff down well. But internally I'm very depressed because I want to pick up a new girl, but can't seem to find a way to make a good approach; I'm also insecure because I feel like I'm not attractive to women and non-confrontational, and honestly I'm starting to really hate them for putting me through all this effort to get them. I used to be more comfortable around girls when I smoked weed, but I want to feel that same level of comfort while sober.

Here's an example: on the beach today, I noticed two very attractive girls sitting nearby (it was fairly crowded). I was there alone with my surfboard taking a break from the ocean, and really wanted to make an approach, but I had absolutely nothing to say, and I didn't want to just walk over there awkwardly, maybe say hello or something stupid about the weather, and stand there like a jackass with no game until slinking away. Then they could chuckle to each other about the weird guy who bothered them and make me feel like more of a retard. What would you do in this situation?