I've been on 3 dates with this girl this month, and we have another this Sunday. After Sunday, I plan on not seeing her again until New Years Eve (time apart is good, yes?)

I can't help but wonder if it's appropriate or not to get her something for this Sunday. I've picked her up and dropped her off for each date, paid for nearly everything, I don't quite feel a present is appropriate. And I don't want her to feel like she owes me anything either. At the same time, she might think I don't give a shit about her if I don't.

I know she likes reading so maybe I could get her a book and a simple card saying i'm glad i met her etc, thoughts?